How Relations and Luck Can Make a Millionaire: Relational Power

Ever wondered how some people seem to reach extraordinary success easily? Doubtless, talent, hard work, and strategic thinking are important ingredients in most success stories. However, often an overlooked factor is at play: the power of relationships. 


The Accidental Billionaires

Think about some of the world's most successful entrepreneurs: many of them didn't actually make billions off the back of genius or some kind of revolutionary business plan. Very often, they have been in the right place at the right time and met the right people.

Take Mark Zuckerberg as an example. He didn't exactly start Facebook by himself. He had a partner who made an absolutely crucial $8,000 investment that kept the servers up and running. It was just such a simple act of support, so basic, that the act of returning this in some friendly way ended up shifting the course of their lives forever.


The Power of Networking

The fact of the matter is that everything in this world is based on relationships. Who you know has enormous potential to make a big difference in your career, finance, and even in personal life. It is about who knows you as well.


The War Room Effect

Can't you see how people move with a sense of added confidence and self-importance after getting into any big, elite group or organization? Most of the time it is because they got acquainted with a group of very influential people.


Building Your Network

So, how do you build your own network of powerful connections? Here are a few tips:

1. Attend Events: Conferences, workshops, and industry gatherings can be great events to meet new people.

2. Volunteer: By volunteering, you have the opportunity to connect with others who really share your interests and values.

3. Participate in Online Communities: Take part in forums, groups, and social media communities related to your industry or interests.

4. Be Genuine: People can smell a phony across the room. Just be yourself and foster real relationships.

5. Give Back: Whenever possible, help someone out. It will buy you goodwill and give your bonds some muscles.

6. Follow Up: When you meet somebody new, make sure to follow up. Email them, hook up on social media, or invite them to coffee.


Remember, it's not just a matter of who you know; it is more about who knows you. The more people that know about your skills, talents, and aspirations, then the more likely you are to get that dream job or that piece of business.


Discussion:

* Who are some people you admire or would like to be?

* What are some steps you could take to grow your network?

* Have you ever experienced a fortunate circumstance that changed the course of your life?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!


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