Adulthood

Stop searching, start creating We've all heard it before: happiness is the ultimate goal. But what if that's actually one giant, fatty, massive, hairy, ugly LIE? What it true fulfillment lies elsewhere? Let's face it. The excitement of a new gadget, a fancy holiday, or a viral meme, lasts for a moment. It's like chasing the poppy in the desert—the closer one approaches, the further it retreats. Power to Change the World Now what is the key to true satisfaction? Not happiness but power. Power is to be able to mold your world, make a difference, and leave a mark. Think of the people who really changed the world: Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Alexander the Great, Muhammad Ali. Were they in pursuit of happiness or were they driven to try and create something extraordinary? The Power of Choice When you have choices, you have power. You can make your own decisions: where you want to live, what you want to do, who you want to be—you aren't at the mercy of circumstances. You'r...

(This blog is inspired through the people who have played a very good role in my life) Ever felt like giving up? We surely have. It's so effortless to let one's drive perish when nothing is as one would really wish them to be. Thing is: There's a secret, really, to staying on track, to keeping motivated: early wins. Why Early Wins Matter? Imagine that. Now, wouldn't you much be more inclined to continue playing if you had just performed a great personal goal while playing a new sport? Or let's say you started a new hobby and managed to do something you really, really liked. Wouldn't you be all the more motivated to continue? That's the power of early wins—it gives us the confidence and momentum necessary to continue. On the other hand, early failures can be a big setback. Not seeing results within a short period of time places a very real chance of starting to question oneself: "I am not good enough" or "This is not for me." The Secret t...