The Illusion of Happiness: Chasing Power Instead

Stop searching, start creating

We've all heard it before: happiness is the ultimate goal. But what if that's actually one giant, fatty, massive, hairy, ugly LIE? What it true fulfillment lies elsewhere?


Let's face it. The excitement of a new gadget, a fancy holiday, or a viral meme, lasts for a moment. It's like chasing the poppy in the desert—the closer one approaches, the further it retreats.


Power to Change the World

Now what is the key to true satisfaction? Not happiness but power.

Power is to be able to mold your world, make a difference, and leave a mark.

Think of the people who really changed the world: Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Alexander the Great, Muhammad Ali. Were they in pursuit of happiness or were they driven to try and create something extraordinary?


The Power of Choice

When you have choices, you have power. You can make your own decisions: where you want to live, what you want to do, who you want to be—you aren't at the mercy of circumstances. You're the master of your fate.

And that's where the real satisfaction comes from. It's not about feeling good all the time; it's about knowing you're making a difference.


How to Find Your Power

* Find Your Passion: What gets you really passionate? What gets you excited?

* Set Goals: Where do you want to go? Set small, accomplishable steps towards your big goals.

* Take Action: Stop talking. Do. Take any step, it leads you closer toward your goal.

* Keep Learning: Keep learning stuff. The more you will learn, the more power you will have.

* Help Others: It builds huge fulfillment when you help other people.

* Prevail Over Challenges: Obstacles give you the opportunity to grow. Do not fear moving out of your comfort zone.


Remember: Power is not about domination or control. It's all about creating, contributing, and leaving your mark for good on the world.

Are you ready to stop chasing happiness and start chasing power?


Please do share your thoughts and goals in the comment section. We encourage and inspire each other to make the difference we intend to see in the world.


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