Why Your Ex Wants You Back (But It Is Not Love)

 Ah well, now your ex is in. She is texting, calling you, trying to slide back into your life like she never actually left. But let's get real here; that is not because she is the one. It's because she is messed up and needs a backup plan.

The real reason she is back.

She probably went out there thinking she was gonna find some hot, rich guy who was gonna lavish her with love and cash. But let's face it, most guys are after just one thing: sex. And once they get that, they're gone. She probably got played a few times, totally ignored, or even worse, ghosted.

Well, so she's finally coming around to realizing that you are the only guy who actually cares about her. You're the one who's got her back, the only one who listens to all her problems, and actually loves her for who she is. And now she totally wants that again.

Don't Fall For It

You have to remember, though, that she's not here because she loves you. She's here because she needs you. She's here because she is kinda desperate. And, actually, if she truly loved you, she shouldn't have left in the first place.

The "Finding Herself" Excuse

Perhaps one of the biggest red flags would be your ex saying she was "finding herself." This simply refers to her wanting to get out and party as much as possible and sleep around with other guys. And, as a matter of fact, she probably didn't really find herself. She just probably found out she really had made a huge mistake.

Don't Let Her Play You Off.

Hey, don't let your ex treat you like a backup plan. You totally deserve someone who loves you for you, not just for being there. If she wants to be with you seriously, she needs to show it. She has to make you believe she has changed and is now ready to commit.

Move On

Just move on, know? You deserve somebody who would love you and appreciate you more. Someone to treat you right and take care of you no matter what happens. Don't waste your time on people who don't deserve you.

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