The Double-Edged Sword of Success

Every sword is double-edged. Even genius, when you continue ceaselessly to excel and get better every single day, can be lonely.



Imagine this: You're a super-smart person. You're always learning; you're always growing. You're the best at what you do. But here's the thing: if everyone else isn't like you, you could end up being alone.


You'll be the basketball superstar playing with little league players. All you can do is score as many points as you want, but it's just not that interesting of a game.


Why You Need to be with Great People

But what good is it if you're doing all that—really killing it—if the people around you don't push you, challenge you, or inspire you? Those are the kind of friends that make the journey more exciting. Think of it like playing a video game. You can't be on noob level. You want to have good enemies because that's how you level up.


How to Find Your Tribe


Your people might seem hard to find, but finding them is so worth it. Here are some tips:

* Join Clubs or Groups: There is a group for every interest: coding, writing, sports—you name it.

* Online Forums: The web is rich in resources for any topic, so it shouldn't be hard to find a community that aligns with your interests. Join social media groups and other online forums.

* Volunteer: Volunteering can be one of the best ways to meet people who share the same values as you do.

Do not be scared to go out of your way just a little bit to talk to the ones you do not know. Truly, you never know whom you might connect with.


Remember: It is good to have big dreams, but never at the expense of your own relationships. In your bid to attain greatness, surround yourself with the right people, and you can be sure of an added advantage.


So, what are you waiting for? Get started with building your tribe!


Who are some of the smartest people you know? What makes them a challenge to you?

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