Don't be the side chick, be a main chick!

So the whole thing with the drama going down and this is why you should never even, even for a single day ever be the second string.


Imagine this: You're totally crushing on this person, and it seems like they're into you too. You're always texting, hanging out, and feeling all loved up. But then, boom! They start acting weird. They're not replying to your texts, canceling plans, and just generally being lame.

Don't let them walk all over you!

You deserve to have a person who actually wants to be with you and no one else. No playing games or keeping you waiting. Somebody who makes you feel awesome, not just a plan B.
I know that letting go of someone you love is really hard. But, honestly, this is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Do not waste your time and energy on someone who doesn't even appreciate you.

Some of these red flags you should watch out for


The Hot and Cold Act: They're totally into you one minute, and completely out of sight the next.
The Excuses: They always have a reason why they can't hang out or why they're acting weird.
The Ghosting: They seem to vanish into thin air only to reappear to pick something.
The Love Bombing: They give you lots of attention and affection and then take it all away in a snap.
The Gaslighting: They make you doubt your feelings and perceptions.


Don't let them mess with your head!

You deserve someone who is consistent, reliable, and really into you. Someone who makes you feel special, not like a second thought.
So the next time you get that lowly emotion within, just know that You deserve much, much more.

Level up your love life and with someone who'd treat you right!

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